Stress & Tension

A group of friends visited their Old University Professor.

Conversation soon turned to complaints about ‘STRESS’ & ‘TENSION’ in Life.

Professor offered them Coffee & returned from kitchen with Coffee in different kinds of cups !!
(Glass Cups, Crystal Cups, Shining Ones, Some Plain Looking, Some Ordinary & Some Expensive Ones..)

When all of them had a Cup in Hand,

The Professor Said:-

“If you noticed – all the Nice Looking & Expensive Cups are taken up, leaving – behind the ordinary ones !!
Everyone of you wanted the Best CUPS, & that is the source of your STRESS & TENSION !!

What you really wanted was “Coffee”, not the “Cup” !!

But you still went for the Best Cup.

If Life is Coffee. Then Jobs, Money, Status & Love etc.. are the Cups !!
They are just TOOLS to hold and contain Life.

Please Don’t Let the CUPS Drive you !!

Enjoy the COFFEE ..!!

Via Whtsapp


How to deal with women if you are a man enough

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When she hits you or pushing you… (Hold her hands)

When she get angry… (Just hug her)

When she be silent … (Ask her what is problem)

When she Ignore you… (Give her attention)

When she asked you about something … (Don’t neglected her)

When she want to get away from you… (Do not agree with her opinion)

When you see her in the worst situations… (Tell her you are beautiful)

When you see her Cry… (Kiss her head and tell her i love you a lot)

When you feel her scared… (Protect her)

When you see her jealous… (That’s mean she love you more than you imagine)

When she say to you i love you… (That’s mean she have feelings to you more than you think)

When she look into your eyes… (Don’t turned your eyes until she turned it first)

..They are a garment for you and you are a garment to them..
Qur’an [2 : 187]

By getting married you are not just getting a wife, you are getting your whole world. From now until the rest of your days your wife will be your partner, your companion, and your best friend.

She will share your moments, your days, and your years. She will share your joys and sorrows, your successes and failures, your dreams and your fears. When you are ill, she will take the best care of you; when you need help, she will do all she can for you;

When you have a secret, she will keep it; when you need advice, she will give you the best advice. She will always be with you: when you wake up in the morning the first thing your eyes will see will be hers; during the day, she will be with you, if for a moment she is not with you by her physical body, she will be thinking of you, praying for you with all her heart, mind, and soul; when you go to sleep at night, the last thing your eyes will see will be her; and when you are asleep you will still see her in your dreams. In short, she will be your whole world and you will be her whole world.

It requires that a husband and wife should be as garments for each other. Just as garments are for protection, comfort, show and concealment for human beings, Allah expects husbands and wives to be for one another.

Fb – (@ sisters.learn.share)

காதல் ♥


கண்ணை பார்த்து வருவதுதான் காதல்
பார்வை இல்லாதவர்களுக்கு காதல்

நிறத்தை பார்த்து வருவதுதான்
காதல் என்றால்!
கருப்பானவர்களுக்கு காதல் வராதா?

அழகை பார்த்து வருவதுதான் காதல்
அழகில்லாதவர்கள் காதலிக்க

பணத்தை பார்த்து வருவதுதான் காதல்!
ஏழைகளுக்கு காதல் வராதா?

இடத்தை பார்த்து வருவதுதான் காதல்!
இடமில்லாதவனுக்கு காதல் வராதா?

பேச்சின் அழகை கண்டு வருவதுதான்
காதல் என்றால்!
ஊமையனுக்கு காதல் வராதா?

படிப்பை பார்த்து வருவதுதான்
காதல் என்றால்!
படிக்காதவனுக்கு காதல் வராதா?

உண்மையில் காதல் என்பது என்ன?

அன்பிற்காக ஏங்கிகொண்டிருக்கும்
ஒரு இதயத்திற்கு
அன்பு எங்கிருந்து பெறப்படுகிறத
அங்கு உருவாகும் ஒரு உன்னதமான
உறவுக்கு பெயர் தான் காதல் ♥  ♥

Via Fb (www.facebook.com/pages/உறுத்தும்-உண்மைகள்)